PREVENT
Posted August 21, 2020
It’s normal for kids to have anxiety about starting a new school year. It’s especially challenging this year, dealing with the uncertainty of how school will be structured during COVID-19. Here are some strategies to help calm your child’s fears and anxieties about back-to-school.
Children are good at reading your emotions. As a parent, you may have your own worries about your child’s school experience. It’s important to calm yourself before talking to your kids about their fears or worries for the new school year.
Don’t assume your child will know about complex ideas like hybrid learning or distance learning. Give them examples of what their day or week might look like. Show them that: this is where you’ll be learning.
Be simple, include details, and be honest. You can also be creative with them and come up with ways to decorate their learning space.
Sometimes we try to hide details because we’re afraid of our kids’ anxiety, but knowledge and information will reduce your child’s fears and help them feel like they understand what’s going to happen. Not knowing is one of the scariest things for kids.
Instead of an open-ended “how did your day go?” invite kids to share by asking specific questions. Challenge them to look for things during the school day to tell you about at the end of the school day, especially questions that can help them. For example, ask your child:
Listen, validate, then help them manage their feelings and problem-solve any issues. Include your child in the problem solving. Children often have great ideas.
Help your child pay attention to something positive rather than dwelling on their fears. Ask them to look for:
Ask your child “What are you afraid of?” to try to understand the danger they are imagining. Prompt them to explain how they might deal with the danger. This can help your child build skills to master their fears and feel more confident, which is much better than trying to convince kids that their worries aren’t real.
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